Confrontation is usually associated with emotional outbursts and mean-spirited language...but it can be a good thing. Firstly, in all of the heat, the truth comes forth. Hidden grudges are revealed, enabling them to be healed. We must first know exactly what the problems are...only then can they be solved!
Secondly, in many instances, we fume and walk around in anger, rather than approach the one who's causing the complications. It is an unhealthy way to be. If confrontation will release the stress, that particular "coming together" is a good thing!
Sometimes an "excited" meeting (minus the "blows", of course) is the only way to get to the root of the problems, that are stagnating an otherwise profitable relationship!
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